An important part of the dating experience is choosing an activity that both people enjoy. You can help your loved one by offering free and low-cost ideas.
Encourage them to ask about preferences
A few simple questions up front can establish likes and dislikes that will help your loved one and their date choose an appropriate activity:
- Indoors or outdoors?
- Food sensitivities or preferences?
- Participate in a game or activity, or just spend time together?
No-cost ideas
With each person’s preferences in mind, you can offer suggestions of free things they can do, such as:
- Go for a walk around a lake, a park, or a nature trail
- Go bike riding
- Play board games or do crafts together
- Make popcorn and watch a movie
Low-cost ideas
- Meet for coffee, breakfast, or lunch
- Go bowling or play mini golf
- See a movie or live performance
- Visit an aquarium or zoo
Remind them that whatever they choose:
- Both people should enjoy the activity
- Be mindful of physical limitations or food sensitivities
- They both should feel comfortable and safe
- Remind them to have fun!
You got this—and so do they!