Everyone deserves safe, meaningful connection.
Relationship support, coaching, and matchmaking for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities.
Who We Are
Find Love Safely helps adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities build friendship, confidence, and love — with thoughtful matchmaking and supportive guidance.
Families can participate through personalized matchmaking or through our virtual workshops focused on relationship skills and confidence.
Whether you’re a member looking for connection or a caregiver hoping to support someone you love, you’re in the right place.
What We Do
Find Love Safely is not a dating app. We’re a relationship-focused service built specifically for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities.
We offer:
- Personalized matchmaking
- Live virtual workshops and coaching focused on communication, dating skills, and relationship safety
- Optional one-on-one support
- Inclusive, welcoming social events
- A calm, safety-first approach that respects independence
Our goal is simple: to help adults with IDD experience connection without pressure, confusion, or unnecessary risk.
Who We Serve
Find Love Safely was built for adults with intellectual and/or developmental disabilities and the people who support them.
Adults with IDD
who want friendship, dating, or companionship
Caregivers, parents, and support staff
who want a thoughtful, safe process
"I would like to thank you for what you've done for this community! So many of us are looking for love and meaningful connections, and until now there hasn't really been much, if anything, to facilitate that."
How It Works
A thoughtful process, not a swipe.
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Step 1: Choose How You'd Like to Participate
Members can join through matchmaking or start with our virtual workshops to build relationship skills and confidence. -
Step 2: Get to Know You
We learn about interests, values, communication style, and readiness for connection. This is also where we'll determine the appropriate level of caregiver involvement. -
Step 3: Personalized Matchmaking
Our matchmakers create your profile and let you know when we have found a potential match for you. -
Step 4: Ongoing Support
Workshops, coaching, and check-ins help build confidence and skills along the way.
Programs Overview
Support that grows with you.
Find Love Safely offers matchmaking memberships designed to support adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities as they build friendship, confidence, and romantic connection.
Core Program
- Matchmaking-focused support
- Annual membership
- Best for members who want a slower, lighter-touch approach
Essentials Program
(Most Popular)
- Matchmaking + live virtual workshops
- Caregiver summaries included
- Ongoing skill-building support
Concierge Program
- Everything in Essentials
- Monthly 1:1 coaching
- Most personalized support
Some individuals begin by participating in our virtual workshops before joining matchmaking.
New City Thank-You
Joining Find Love Safely in a new city?
As a thank-you for helping us build a strong, connected community, new members in newly launched cities receive complimentary access to our live virtual workshops for their first three months.
This early access helps members build skills, confidence, and community right from the start.
Not Ready for Matchmaking Yet?
Some members start by joining our Virtual Workshops Membership ($89/month) to practice communication, boundaries, and dating skills in a supportive environment.
Safety, dignity, and care matter.
Families choose Find Love Safely because we are:
- Intentional — no algorithms, no swiping, no pressure
- Experienced — built by families who understand the risks and the hopes
- Supportive — coaching and education alongside matchmaking
- Respectful — members are treated as adults with agency
- Transparent — caregivers can stay informed without taking over
A Personal Note
Find Love Safely was created by a parent who understands both the desire for independence and the need for safety.
What began as one family’s question — “How can my child date safely?” — has grown into a service supporting adults and families across the country.
We’re honored to walk alongside you.
Ready to take the next step?
Whether you’re looking for connection, guidance, or a safe place to begin, we’re here.