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Find Love Safely in
the Twin Cities

Twin Cities, MN

Find Love Safely in Minneapolis/St. Paul

Find Love Safely supports adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities throughout the Twin Cities metro area who are looking for friendship, dating, or meaningful connection — with safety, respect, and dignity at the center.

The Twin Cities is one of our most established Find Love Safely communities (and where it all began!), with an active and growing network of members, caregivers, and inclusive events designed to support connection over time.

 

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How It Works in the Twin Cities

Members in the Twin Cities receive the full Find Love Safely experience, including:

  • Personalized, human-led matchmaking
  • Clear expectations around boundaries, consent, and respectful behavior
  • Optional virtual workshops* and one-on-one coaching
  • Ongoing communication and check-ins as part of a thoughtful, relationship-based process

Because this is an established community, members have access to regular local events in addition to virtual offerings.

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*Virtual workshops are included with the Essentials and Concierge programs. All members who join in newly launched cities receive complimentary access to live virtual workshops for their first three months as a thank-you for helping build the local community. After this initial period, ongoing workshop access is based on the program selected.

Program Options

Members in the Twin Cities may choose from three program options:

Core Program

Matchmaking
 
Free admission to local events, when available
 
$349/year
(annual membership only)

 
 
 
 
 
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Essentials Program

Matchmaking
 
Free admission to local events, when available
 
Twice-monthly live virtual workshops
 
$1,299/year or $129/month
(3-month min.)
 
 
 
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Concierge Program

Matchmaking
 
Free admission to local events, when available
 
Twice-monthly live virtual workshops
 
Monthly 1:1 coaching
 
$2,799/year or $259/month
(3-month min.)
 
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Local Events & Community

The Twin Cities community hosts a variety of inclusive social events designed to support comfort, safety, and connection. Events may include small-group gatherings, structured social activities, and speed-dating-style experiences.

Event offerings vary throughout the year, and participation is always optional.

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Safety side events

Caregiver Involvement

Some members participate independently, while others involve caregivers or support staff more closely. There is no single “right” level of involvement.

Support preferences are discussed during enrollment and the intake call and can be adjusted over time. Our goal is to balance independence, safety, and clear communication in a way that feels respectful and appropriate for each individual.

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"The whole thing has been extremely positive. The opportunity for her to have real-life situations where she has to take responsibility and ownership to set up the dates, carry on conversations during the dates, and do the appropriate follow-up. Having that reciprocity of relationship and responsibility has been remarkable. We have seen tremendous growth in her skill sets."

Parent of Find Love Safely member

Twin Cities, Your Matchmaker is Paige

Paige LaSota is a healthy relationships educator with a degree in disability studies, specializing in support for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. She believes everyone deserves meaningful connection — and works to make that possible. Whether you’re exploring dating, looking for a serious relationship, or hoping to make a new friend, Paige is here to help you find what matters most.

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Ready to Get Started in the Twin Cities?

If you’re exploring relationship support for yourself or a loved one in the Minneapolis/St. Paul area, we’re happy to help you take the next step.

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