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Find Love Safely Locations

Find Love Safely serves adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities in select cities across the United States.

Our approach is consistent everywhere: thoughtful, safety-first matchmaking supported by education, coaching, and community. While matchmaking is always personal and relationship-based, the availability of local, in-person events varies by city and grows over time.

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How Find Love Safely Works

All Find Love Safely members receive:

  • Personalized, human-led matchmaking (never app-based or algorithm-driven)
  • Clear expectations around boundaries, consent, and respectful behavior
  • Live virtual workshops (included with Essentials and Concierge) and 1:1 coaching (included with Concierge; available as an add-on)
  • A flexible approach to caregiver involvement, discussed during intake

Local, in-person events are offered as communities grow and may vary by city.

Members in newly launched cities receive complimentary access to live virtual workshops for their first three months as a thank-you. After that, workshop access is based on the program selected.

Program Options

Choose the level of support that fits best.

Core Program

Matchmaking
 
Free admission to local events, when available
 
$349/year
(annual membership only)

 
 
 
 
 

Essentials Program

Matchmaking
 
Free admission to local events, when available
 
Twice-monthly live virtual workshops
 
$1,299/year or $129/month
(3-month min.)
 
 
 

Concierge Program

Matchmaking
 
Free admission to local events, when available
 
Twice-monthly live virtual workshops
 
Monthly 1:1 coaching
 
$2,799/year or $259/month
(3-month min.)
 

Our Cities

Each city below represents a Find Love Safely community at a different stage of growth. Program offerings are consistent nationwide, while local events and in-person opportunities vary by location.

Twin Cities, MN

Established Community

  • Regular local, in-person events
  • Live virtual workshops and coaching available

GET STARTED IN THE TWIN CITIES

San Francisco, CA

Growing Community

  • Local events emerging
  • SDP funding accepted (Regional Center approval varies)
  • Live virtual workshops and coaching available

GET STARTED IN THE BAY AREA

Los Angeles, CA

Growing Community

  • SDP funding accepted (Regional Center approval varies)
  • Live virtual workshops and coaching available
  • New city thank-you: Members who join now receive free access to live virtual workshops for their first three months.

GET STARTED IN LOS ANGELES

San Diego, CA

Growing Community

  • SDP funding accepted (Regional Center approval varies)
  • Live virtual workshops and coaching available
  • New city thank-you: Members who join now receive free access to live virtual workshops for their first three months.

GET STARTED IN SAN DIEGO

Sacramento, CA

Growing Community

  • SDP funding accepted (Regional Center approval varies)
  • Live virtual workshops and coaching available
  • New city thank-you: Members who join now receive free access to live virtual workshops for their first three months.

GET STARTED IN SACRAMENTO

Boston, MA

Growing Community

  • Live virtual workshops and coaching available
  • New city thank-you: Members who join now receive free access to live virtual workshops for their first three months.

GET STARTED IN BOSTON

Denver, CO

Growing Community

  • Live virtual workshops and coaching available
  • New city thank-you: Members who join now receive free access to live virtual workshops for their first three months.

GET STARTED IN DENVER

Chicago, IL

Growing Community

  • Live virtual workshops and coaching available
  • New city thank-you: Members who join now receive free access to live virtual workshops for their first three months.

GET STARTED IN CHICAGO

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We are always exploring expansion into new areas.

We’re growing thoughtfully. If you don’t see your city listed, follow us on social media to stay updated on newly added cities!

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"As a father of a daughter with intellectual disabilities, it was difficult to feel comfortable thinking about her entering the world of dating. With Find Love Safely channeling initial communications through the parents and guardians, it alleviates many of the safety concerns that I had about her participating in a dating app. I feel that she is well supported for success in finding new friends and maybe a more serious relationship."

Parent of Find Love Safely member