Events in
Northern California

Join us this summer for this speed-dating event in the Bay Area! This event is open to both members and non-members. Pre-registration is required.

We're excited to invite you to our first Find Love Safely Social in Northern California! This event is open to Find Love Safely members and non-members. Come meet other Find Love Safely members and enjoy a relaxed evening.

Light appetizers and non-alcoholic drinks will be served.

Families are welcome to attend. Register to save your spot today!

Cost: Free for all current members and their families; $20 for non-members (families of non-members are welcome for no additional fee). Registration is required for members and non-members.

Ready to meet new people in a fun, low-pressure way?

We are teaming up with The Social Connection to host a structured speed-dating and speed-friending event designed specifically for neurodivergent adults and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (18+).

This isn’t awkward mingling — it’s guided connection.

Participants will rotate through short, supportive conversations with fellow attendees, giving everyone the chance to meet multiple new people in one evening. Conversation prompts and gentle facilitation will help make introductions feel comfortable and natural.

Whether you’re hoping to make new friends, explore dating, or simply practice social skills in a welcoming environment, this event is designed to be safe, respectful, and inclusive.

Caregivers are welcome to attend and support as needed.

We can’t wait to see you there and help you build meaningful new connections.

Cost: Free for all current members and their families; $8 for non-members. Registration is required for members and non-members.

Join Find Love Safely and the My Best Social Life team for a live, one-hour "Fireside Chat" focused on the real-world dating questions that neurodivergent people and their families are actually asking right now.

We'll explore hot topics like online dating hazards, avoiding first-date missteps, and what healthy relationships can really look like for neurodivergent adults.

Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh of My Best Social Life will be joined by Katherine Gyolai, founder of Find Love Safely, for a thoughtful discussion and Q&A that you're not going to want to miss.

Cost: Free to all

Join Find Love Safely Founder for a 60-minute information session (30-minute presentation, 30 minutes for Q&A) to learn about how Find Love Safely supports individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) through personalized matchmaking, education, and coaching.

During this session, you will:

- Learn about the safety measures and supports we provide for members and families

- Discover how our service works and explore our three programs: Core, Essentials, and Concierge. We’ll also explain how caregiver involvement is customized during intake based on each member’s preferences and support needs.

- Get answers to your questions in a welcoming, supportive space

Whether you’re an individual with IDD, a parent, caregiver, or professional, this session will help you understand how Find Love Safely can empower healthy connections.

Cost: Free to all