Find Love Safely
Programs & Memberships
Support that meets you where you are.
Find Love Safely offers three membership programs, all centered around thoughtful matchmaking and designed to support adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities as they build friendship, confidence, and romantic connection.
Every member is different. Some want a slower, independent approach. Others benefit from more guidance and skill-building along the way. Our programs allow families to choose the level of support that feels right, both now and as needs evolve.
What All Programs Include
Matchmaking is always included.
No matter which program you choose, every Find Love Safely membership includes:
- Personalized matchmaking based on interests, goals, and readiness
- Thoughtful, intentional introductions
- Free admission to local Find Love Safely events (when available)
- A respectful, safety-first approach that honors independence
We are not a dating app. We are a relationship-focused service built with care, thoughtfulness, and integrity.
Core Program
Foundational matchmaking support
The Core Program is designed for members who want access to Find Love Safely’s matchmaking services with a lighter level of ongoing support.
This program is a good fit for individuals who:
- Are comfortable taking a slower approach to dating
- Have strong communication and social skills in place
- Prefer minimal structure beyond introductions
What’s included in Core:
- Personalized matchmaking
- Free admission to local events (when available)
- Quarterly matchmaker check-in email
- Optional add-on coaching sessions as needed
The Core Program does not include ongoing virtual workshop access.
$349/year
The Core Program is offered as an annual membership only because matchmaking is a thoughtful, relationship-based process that unfolds over time.
Essentials Program
The Essentials Program offers additional structure and support for members who benefit from learning and practicing relationship skills alongside matchmaking.
In addition to introductions, members participate in twice-monthly live virtual workshops focused on communication, boundaries, online safety, and healthy relationships. Topics rotate and are revisited throughout the year. Caregivers receive short summary emails after each session to stay informed and aligned.
This program is ideal for:
- First-time daters
- Members building confidence and social skills
- Individuals who want consistent skill-building and immediate, actionable education
What’s included in Essentials:
- Personalized matchmaking
- Twice-monthly live virtual workshops
- Caregiver summary email after each workshop session
- Free admission to local events (when available)
- Optional add-on 1:1 coaching sessions
$1,299/year
or
$129/month (3-month minimum)
Concierge Program
Our most personalized, high-touch experience
The Concierge Program is designed for members who benefit from individualized support and regular one-on-one guidance.
In addition to everything in Essentials, Concierge members receive a monthly one-on-one coaching session tailored to their goals, experiences, and challenges. Coaching provides space to reflect, practice skills, and build confidence with personalized support.
Coaching sessions are provided by Mary or Paige — each trained in our relationship-centered, safety-first approach and experienced in supporting adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities.
This program is best for:
- Members who want ongoing individualized guidance
- Individuals navigating anxiety, transitions, or complex dating goals
- Families seeking the highest level of support
What’s included in Concierge:
- Personalized matchmaking
- Twice-monthly live virtual workshops
- Caregiver summary email after each workshop session
- One 1:1 coaching session per month (60 minutes)
- Free admission to local events (when available)
- Priority support
$2,799/year
or
$259/month (3-month minimum)
Limited availability
Optional Add-On
1:1 Coaching Sessions
One-on-one coaching sessions are available as needed for members who want additional personalized support, practice, or guidance outside of their program level.
$150/session (60 minutes)
Available to all program levels. Purchasing options and scheduling discussed during intake call.
New City Thank-You
Joining Find Love Safely in a newly launched city?
As a thank-you for joining early and helping us build a strong local community, new members in newly launched cities receive complimentary access to our live virtual coaching workshops for their first three months.
This early access helps members build confidence, skills, and connection right from the start.
Choosing the Right Program
Not sure which option is the best fit?
That’s completely okay. Many families start with one program and adjust as needs evolve.
- Core is best for members who prefer a slower, low-touch approach
- Essentials is recommended for most members and first-time daters
- Concierge offers the highest level of personalized support
We’re always happy to help you think through what makes the most sense.
Ready to get started?
Choose the program that feels right, knowing you can grow into more support if needed.