Join Find Love Safely
Safe connection. Real relationships. Support you can trust.
Find Love Safely helps adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities build friendship, confidence, and meaningful relationships — safely, respectfully, and at their own pace.
You can begin through personalized matchmaking or by participating in our virtual workshops focused on relationship skills and confidence.
Choose Your Starting Point
Matchmaking Memberships
Our Core, Essentials, and Concierge programs provide personalized introductions and ongoing support from a Find Love Safely matchmaker.
Virtual Workshops Membership
Participate in twice-monthly live workshops focused on communication, dating skills, and relationship safety. Matchmaking is not included.
Who We're For
Find Love Safely is designed for:
- Adults (18+) with intellectual or developmental disabilities
- Individuals seeking friendship, dating, or social connection
- Families and caregivers who want safe, supported options
- People who want more than dating apps — and less risk
If you’ve ever wondered “Where do we even start?” — this is it.
What Makes Find Love Safely Different?
Unlike dating apps or unstructured social groups, Find Love Safely offers:
- Human support — real matchmakers and coaches
- Skills-based coaching grounded in evidence-based approaches
- Safety-first systems with caregiver inclusion when appropriate
- Respect for independence while honoring support needs
How It Works
A thoughtful process, not a swipe.
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Step 1: Join Find Love Safely
Choose the program that fits your goals and support needs. You can begin with a matchmaking membership, or start with our Virtual Workshops Membership ($89/month), which includes twice-monthly live virtual relationship education sessions.
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Step 2: Get to Know You
For members pursuing matchmaking, we learn about interests, values, communication style, and readiness for connection. This is also where we determine the appropriate level of caregiver involvement.
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Step 3: Personalized Matchmaking
Our matchmakers create your profile and let you know when we have found a potential match for you. -
Step 4: Ongoing Support
Workshops, coaching, and check-ins help members build confidence, strengthen communication skills, and navigate relationships along the way.
A Note on Safety
Find Love Safely is:
- Not a dating app
- Not therapy
- Not a crisis service
Core Program
Matchmaking-focused support
Annual membership
Workshops available as an optional add-on
$349/year
Essentials Program
Matchmaking + included live virtual workshops
Caregiver summaries included
Ongoing skill-building support
$1,299/year or $129/month (3-month minimum)
Concierge Program
Everything in Essentials
Monthly 1:1 coaching
Most personalized support
$2,799/year or $259/month (3-month minimum)
Not Ready for Matchmaking Yet?
That’s okay — many members begin with our Virtual Workshops Membership to build communication skills, confidence, and relationship readiness in a supportive environment.
Workshops are held live twice each month and focus on topics like conversation skills, boundaries, texting, dating safety, and healthy relationships.
$89/month — cancel anytime
Caregivers & Families
From one caregiver to another, we know how deeply you care — and how hard it can be to balance safety with independence.
At Find Love Safely:
- Members are treated as adults
- Caregivers are respected as partners
- Communication is clear, kind, and appropriate
- No one is pressured into anything
You’re not handing things off — you’re gaining support.
Ready to Get Started?
If you’re ready to explore safe connection, friendship, and love — we’d be honored to support you.
Not ready for matchmaking yet?
You can begin with our Virtual Workshops Membership ($89/month) and build communication skills and confidence in a supportive environment.
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