Join Find Love Safely
Safe connection. Real relationships. Support you can trust.
Find Love Safely helps adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities build friendship, confidence, and meaningful relationships — safely, respectfully, and at their own pace.
Whether you’re here as a member or a caregiver, you’re in the right place.
Who We're For
Find Love Safely is designed for:
- Adults (18+) with intellectual or developmental disabilities
- Individuals seeking friendship, dating, or social connection
- Families and caregivers who want safe, supported options
- People who want more than dating apps — and less risk
If you’ve ever wondered “Where do we even start?” — this is it.
What Makes Find Love Safely Different?
Unlike dating apps or unstructured social groups, Find Love Safely offers:
- Human support — real matchmakers and coaches
- Skills-based coaching grounded in evidence-based approaches
- Safety-first systems with caregiver inclusion when appropriate
- Respect for independence while honoring support needs
How It Works
A thoughtful process, not a swipe.
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Step 1: Join Find Love Safely
Choose the program that fits your goals and support needs. -
Step 2: Get to Know You
We learn about interests, values, communication style, and readiness for connection. This is also where we'll determine the appropriate level of caregiver involvement. -
Step 3: Personalized Matchmaking
Our matchmakers create your profile and let you know when we have found a potential match for you. -
Step 4: Ongoing Support
Workshops, coaching, and check-ins help build confidence and skills along the way.
A Note on Safety
Find Love Safely is:
- Not a dating app
- Not therapy
- Not a crisis service
Program Options
Find Love Safely offers different levels of support to meet people where they are.
Core Program
Matchmaking-focused support
Annual membership
Best for members who want a slower, lighter-touch approach
$349/year
Essentials Program
(Most Popular)
Matchmaking + live virtual workshops
Caregiver summaries included
Ongoing skill-building support
$1,299/year or $129/month (3-month minimum)
Concierge Program
Everything in Essentials
Monthly 1:1 coaching
Most personalized support
$2,799/year or $259/month (3-month minimum)
Not sure which program is the best fit?
That’s okay — we’ll confirm everything together during your intake call, and you can change programs later. Matchmaking is included in every option.
Caregivers & Families
From one caregiver to another, we know how deeply you care — and how hard it can be to balance safety with independence.
At Find Love Safely:
- Members are treated as adults
- Caregivers are respected as partners
- Communication is clear, kind, and appropriate
- No one is pressured into anything
You’re not handing things off — you’re gaining support.
Ready to Get Started?
If you’re ready to explore safe connection, friendship, and love — we’d be honored to support you.
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