Find Love Safely in
Sacramento
Find Love Safely in Sacramento
Find Love Safely supports adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities in the Sacramento area who are looking for friendship, dating, or meaningful connection — with safety, respect, and dignity at the center.
Our work is relationship-focused, human-led, and designed to meet people where they are. Whether someone is new to dating or has prior experience, we take a thoughtful, personalized approach.
Members in Sacramento receive the same core Find Love Safely experience offered nationwide:
- Personalized, human-led matchmaking
- Clear expectations around boundaries, consent, and respectful behavior
- Optional virtual workshops and coaching for skill-building and support
- A pace that prioritizes comfort, readiness, and safety
As the Sacramento community grows, local, in-person events are added to support connection and community-building.
*Virtual workshops are included with the Essentials and Concierge programs. All members who join in newly launched cities receive complimentary access to live virtual workshops for their first three months as a thank-you for helping build the local community. After this initial period, ongoing workshop access is based on the program selected.
Program Options
Members in Sacramento may choose from three program options:
Core Program
Essentials Program
Concierge Program
New Payment Option for California Residents
Find Love Safely accepts California Self-Determination Program (SDP) funding and has been approved by several Regional Centers and Financial Management Services (FMS) providers under service code 331.
Because SDP plans are individualized, approval and payment processes may vary by Regional Center and individual plan. Families are encouraged to speak with their service coordinator and FMS provider to confirm how Find Love Safely services can be included.
Our team is happy to provide documentation or answer questions to support the approval process. Just have your Independent Facilitator contact us to get started.
Caregiver Involvement
Some members participate independently, while others involve caregivers or support staff more closely. There is no single “right” level of involvement.
Support preferences are discussed during enrollment and the intake call and can be adjusted over time. Our goal is always to balance independence, safety, and clear communication in a way that feels respectful and appropriate for everyone involved.
New City Communities
Extra support during growth.
Members who join Find Love Safely in newly launched or growing cities receive complimentary access to our live virtual workshops for their first three months as a thank-you for joining early and helping build the local community.
"The whole thing has been extremely positive. The opportunity for her to have real-life situations where she has to take responsibility and ownership to set up the dates, carry on conversations during the dates, and do the appropriate follow-up. Having that reciprocity of relationship and responsibility has been remarkable. We have seen tremendous growth in her skill sets."
Sacramento, Your Matchmaker is Mary
Northern California residents, meet Mary Tousignant, OT—your local matchmaker at Find Love Safely. As a mother of a son on the autism spectrum, she understands both the challenges and the deep importance of building meaningful, lasting connections. Whether you're seeking companionship, love, or a deeper sense of belonging, Mary is here to help you expand your world and meet someone special.
Ready to Get Started in Sacramento?
If you’re exploring relationship support for yourself or a loved one in Sacramento, we’re happy to help you take the next step.