Find Love Safely in
San Diego, CA


Special Introductory Annual Membership Fee: $99
For $99 per year, you get:
- Ongoing review for potential matches
- Unlimited matches during your membership
- Free access to events
Through December 31, 2025, the annual membership fee for WOMEN is $44.50—HALF OFF our regular rate! No code needed.
NEW PAYMENT OPTION FOR CALIFORNIA RESIDENTS
Now accepting SDP through regional centers!
Find Love Safely is an approved Self-Determination Program (SDP) vendor with Cambrian FMS, FMS Pay, and AAA-FMS. We are also approved with North Los Angeles County Regional Center.
"We have been just thrilled with this organization. It’s been something that just kind of opened her up."
Parent of Find Love Safely member
Your Matchmaker is Steffany
Steffany Lohn has long championed inclusion for her own son on the autism spectrum and is excited to be supporting others in making lasting and impactful social connections through Find Love Safely.

- I am 18 or older.
- I have an intellectual or developmental disability.
- I would like my parent or other appointed agent (such as a guardian or conservator) to participate in the matchmaking journey with me.
- I understand this support person will communicate on my behalf with my matches’ parent or appointed agent to help decide next steps—like when to exchange contact information or go on a date.
We think the best model for you is:
Find Love Safely Supported
Important Note: If you are under legal guardianship or conservatorship, this is the only Find Love Safely model you are eligible for.
- I am 18 or older.
- I have an intellectual or developmental disability.
- I am not under legal guardianship or conservatorship.
- I am comfortable participating in the matchmaking process independently.
- I will communicate directly with my matches after we are connected.
We think the best model for you is: