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San Francisco Bay Area

San Francisco Bay Area
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Introductory Annual Membership Fee: $349

For $349 per year, you get:

  • Ongoing review for potential matches
  • Unlimited matches during your membership
  • Free access to events
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Through December 31, 2025, the annual membership fee for WOMEN is $174.50—HALF OFF our regular rate! No code needed.
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NEW PAYMENT OPTION FOR CALIFORNIA RESIDENTS
 
 

Now accepting SDP through regional centers!

Find Love Safely is an approved Self-Determination Program (SDP) vendor with Cambrian FMS, FMS Pay, Sentinel Four, and AAA FMS. We are also approved through North Bay Regional Center and Golden Gate Regional Center.

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"I’m so grateful you got this started. It will be a blessing for many young people."

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Your Matchmaker is Mary

California residents, meet Mary Tousignant, OT—your local matchmaker at Find Love Safely. As a mother of a son on the autism spectrum, she understands both the challenges and the deep importance of building meaningful, lasting connections. Whether you're seeking companionship, love, or a deeper sense of belonging, Mary is here to help you expand your world and meet someone special.

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Which Best Describes You?

This helps us determine which Find Love Safely model is best for you!

FLS Supported
  • I am 18 or older.
  • I have an intellectual or developmental disability.
  • I would like my parent or other appointed agent (such as a guardian or conservator) to participate in the matchmaking journey with me.
  • I understand this support person will communicate on my behalf with my matches’ parent or appointed agent to help decide next steps—like when to exchange contact information or go on a date.

We think the best model for you is:

Find Love Safely Supported

Important Note: If you are under legal guardianship or conservatorship, this is the only Find Love Safely model you are eligible for.

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FLS Independent 2
  • I am 18 or older.
  • I have an intellectual or developmental disability.
  • I am not under legal guardianship or conservatorship.
  • I am comfortable participating in the matchmaking process independently.
  • I will communicate directly with my matches after we are connected.

We think the best model for you is:

Find Love Safely Independent

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